Thursday, March 02, 2006

this one is long.

hi everyone!

little post here to let ya'll in on whats been going on with me for the last little while..i'll take you back a little ways..i've been single for quite some time..kind of took myself off the dating scene so that i could work through a few little issues that i had been having..i had a really rough few months..but i bounced back..really well..after a few months of concentrating on myself....i decided that it was time once again for this girl to jump back in the saddle..get out there..meet new people..make new memories..have some FUN!!...anyways..i did just that..i met a very nice boy..a boy that i could really laugh with..someone who i could be myself around..someone who didn't mind that i was a little bit strange..someone who himself had just gotten out of a relationship :) it was really cool..it was really nice to actually have someone that you could call on to go out and drink beers..or go see a concert...or even to just hang around the house with and watch movies on tv...anyways

..this boy and i made an agreement..that since neither of us was really ready for anything to serious..that we would just hang out..and have fun..with not to many strings attached...EXCEPT for fact that if anything happened to change for either of us..that the lines of COMMUNICATION were to ALWAYS be OPEN...meaning..that if i happened to meet someone else..or if HE happened to meet someone else for that matter..then we were to be honest about it..we were to talk about it..let the other person know..and that would be fine..there would be no hard feelings as we had talked about it in the beginning and BOTH agreed that we could come to the other person if this were to happen...anyways...that is a bit of background...back to my story...

i had a lot of fun with this boy..he was always making me laugh..he was smart..and funny..had a really wicked sense of humor...and he knew how to fix things...well...sorta...one day..he came over to my house to watch a movie..and my tv was broken..i could get a picture on my tv..and flip through the channels..but there was no sound..when it was on cable..movies were no problem i guess..because it had a different input or output for the dvd player...(or some shit like that..so i was told)...anyways..this boy happened to have repaired tvs for a while..and told me that he would bring over some tools one night and try to fix my tv for me :) yipppeee!!!

...move ahead a few days now..the boy comes over..its a thursday night..he brings his tools...YAY for boys with tools..he ripped my tv apart..did a few things with it here and there..put it back together...still didn't work...took it apart again..did a few more things here and there...put it back together..STILL didn't work...AND..to make things worse..i couldn't even watch movies on it anymore..booohooohooo...anyways..this NICE boy that i had been spending all this time with offered that he would take my tv into the repair shop..and he would even pay for half of the cost to get it fixed..he felt really horrible because he had made it worse..rather than make it better..i thought that was SOOOOOOOO sweet of him..and i accepted his offer :)

Anyways..this was on thursday night...so on friday..in the morning..the boy took my tv..and took it to the repair shop..i was going out of town that night to visit my friend andie...(u all saw my post on that..hehehe)...anyways..we parted that morning..and as far as i knew..things were A-OK..i would go see my friend Andie..i would come home on Saturday..and i would talk to the boy..because you know..at this point we pretty much talked everyday...well...saturday...i didn't hear from him..that was ok tho..i was really tired from the weekend..and besides..i would talk to him on msn later...RIGHT??!?! because we talked online EVERYDAY....nope...wrong again..no msn..SUNDAY...no boy..MONDAY no boy...TUESDAY no boy..WEDNESDAY..I called the boy..we chatted for a few minutes..and make plans for him to bring my tv to my on THURSDAY...anyways..thursday comes and goes...NO tv...NO phone call...NO email...NOT ANYTHING AT ALL...sheesh..whats going on here??!?!? is the boy sick??!!? is the boy dead?!?! WHERE in the WORLD is the BOY?!?!?!
so..here we go again..FRIDAY no boy....SATURDAY
no boy...SUNDAY...no boy..no boy on msn..no boy calling..I starting to wonder where the fuck my tv is...hmmm interesting..so ANYWAYS..I decide to send the boy an email..and tell him that I don't give two shits why he is avoiding me..and that he is to email me asap..tell me where the tv is..and i will pick it up and pay for it myself..and we can BOTH be done with it...NO DICE...the boy emails back....he has no problem with me..he has a problem with himself..and that he has been avoiding the world...OOOOOOOO How MYSTERIOUS!!!!! he also says that i deserve an explanation..and that he will get my tv on thursday and bring it to my house so he can see me and give me that explanation in person...that brings us to today...thursday.
so..i have my tv back..safe and sound..and my explanation as well..the boy did something that he said he shouldnt have done..he got back with his ex...i guess considering him and my tv have been
MIA since Friday February 17..that it happened sometime on that weekend...I guess since he avoided me from that day on as well...that he decided i wasn't worth the time or energy for him to deal with...i guess the moral of the story is...SOME PEOPLE DON'T KNOW HOW TO STICK TO AGREEMENTS..even though they are made for a reason..so since he has given zero regard for my feelings...and didn't have the respect for me to stick to the agreement..i say..."FUCK YOU BOY" :D
the end.

*oh and as a side note..he didn't have the guts to tell me he broke the agreement BEFORE i gave him half the cash for the tv repair..guess he didn't know me at all*

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ohhhh no. What a coward. Why do some people make it so hard when you obviously made it easy for him to be honest..

Mind you, its never easy to tell someone that you no longer want to see them, but easy or not - you deserve a little more consideration.

Back on the saddle ya go...
Dont waste a moment on the boy.

Anonymous said...

O crap - that was me that made that last comment, lol.
Im no annonomousey!

Zambo said...

Hey Nicki.

Sorry to hear about the shitty deal you were given. I'm not worried about you though. You know why? I'll tell you...'Cause you're a hell of a catch and any guy would be lucky to get to spend any time with you at all. Sure, it feels bad now, but you'll be OK, my friend.

It's tough being a boy sometimes. But you'll find a good man one day and this will be but an amusing memory...

I hope you're able to bounce back from this. Not all boys are gutless and weak. And I know you will find one who won't let you down (too often). And you'll live happily ever after (most of the time)!

Take care out there, little Nicki!

Your Pal,

Zambo.

nicki said...

thanks guys :) i'm not sad..don't worry about me..did it come across like i was sad?? i'm just mostly disappointed with the lack of respect..and ok..a little bit pissed with it too.

Josh said...

Screw that A-hole!! What nerve he has to be inconsiderate to our Nicki. I say we start a new blog just for phone numbers of people that do us wrong, then we can all crank their sorry asses. Wish you were closer to me and I could give you one of my TVs.

littleandie said...

this is me smiling and clapping! i think you hit the nail on the head with the post and it came across as you had hoped when we talked.
hehehheheeh silly boy, nicki is for good boys.
random: I'M SOOOOOOO EXCITED NOW!!!! :)

Ben O. said...

Dude, that is long.

Ben O.

Dirk Richter said...

You certainly have the right attitude. Don't be sad, its not worth your effort. You have every right to be disappointed. It all comes down to the words of wisdom you probably learned when you were 7. Boys are dumb. I'm a boy, and I admit that freely. Some of us are very dumb, for a very long time.

But, better you learn that he is not right for you now, than later, when you have invested yourself emotionally.

On the bright side, you did get your TV back, and that's what's really important.

Hang in there.

Until next time,
Dirk

rabsteen said...

what a mofo.

nicki said...

you guys all ROCK!! thats why i heart ya all SOOOOO much!!! heeheh!!

HELLOOOOOO new faces!! ben.o, dirk richter and rabsteen!! nice to see ya all!!!

hey andie...SOOOOOOOO EXCITED NOW TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

and SHERRY!! can't WAIT for the MOONPIES!!!!!!!!! mmmmmm!!!!!!!

Progger said...

Let's see. You left him for several days, including a weekend so you could spend it over at your girlfriend's house going out partying and getting drunk with other men and women?

Considering how you act, you should not be expecting anyone else to be a best friend to you.